The closest thing to a relationship with an elf I would have is if I dated an Elfkin/Drow elfkin maybe…Only problem is…I’m not sure if being Elfkin and such is more of a spirituality, or a personal identity. If it’s the latter, things might turn out okay for me in the dating world in the future. But if not, then I don’t know what to do about this attraction. Do I just ignore it? Or does having this attraction have some kind of spiritual significance? Would appreciate any insight on this anyone can give. Thanks.

The person I ‘see’ is male. I believe they are elven, or possibly sidhe. Tall, or at least average height for an elven male. Long thick hair that is something between “dirty blonde” and caramel, with a slight wave to it. No facial hair. Not sure of eye color, possibly gray or blue.

But they are not…frail. They do not look like a Tolkien elf from the Lord of the Rings films, like Celeborn or Legolas or anything like that. They’re a bit stronger, not heavy or “ripped” but just a bit more solid looking.

I don’t know who he is, but I’m starting to think there may be more to this than simply imagination. Not sure if trying to question him will provide any insight. But if I learn more I will post an update.

Like, I have some thoughts about what’s going on, but overall I’m kind of in a similar boat of not wanting to hyperfocus on it.

It’s good to see you on here. I know it’s been a long time since we’ve had a chance to hang out, working on fixing that. 🙂 I’m trying to get my life sorted out a bit better at the moment in various ways.

As “the inner dragon” is yourself, you’ll know when it’s the time to stop.

I tend to wander away from online fora, then wander back later.  Not sure when I last logged into EM, and I’m supposed to be a mod there – but traffic-wise, it is pretty dead.

I never FB’d much, but I have been pretty much ignoring it for a several days.  Just tired of the political drama, and most of my friends and family aren’t tired of it.

I still don’t miss Facebook, but I wound up missing quality kin discussion. Made a new Tumblr account (otherbornelf1), then peeked into the #otherkin channel…not a good idea. The first blog suggestion that came up in there was “Otherkin fashion”, followed by a few kin aesthetic blogs.

Sigh.

If the food I eat is supposed to be in any way connected to my kin type, then I guess grilled cheese sandwiches are the new lembas. :/

I’m abit out of ideas these days…the online elf community doesn’t seem real active lately, but I’m still kind of around if folks want to chat. I never got around to finishing my short story, but maybe I can try to pick it back up or make some new art or something.

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On my part I am still trying to determine exactly how I feel about different things.

I don’t know if I have a “soulmate”, “twin”, etc. or not, but I do have an odd childhood memory from around age 9 or so. I was outside playing alone, and I just randomly thought, “There’s someone in my life who isn’t here.” Kind of odd. At 26 I’ve never married or had a child, still trying to figure out exactly what I really want. Mostly though, I think I’m just an old fashioned romantic.

Don’t really have a point here…just felt like it might be good to have an elfy relational thread. 🙂

<span style=”line-height: 1.8;”>Mayhaw, yum yum. Lol. I remember Georgia making a mayhaw cake that was good, but never had Syleniel’s tarts. </span>

You are most definitely correct!

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After that I was a unicorn for a bit, which was better.

I feel like this could apply almost no matter the situation… 🙂

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